Saturday, December 12, 2009

An Extra-ordinary Indian

I received this wonderful email about a very inspirational person that I believe should get more publicity because I believe it may inspire that kind of action from just thoughts in others -

An Extra-ordinary Indian

We still have a few good human beings around who are doing some yeoman service without expecting anything in return.... God Bless Such Souls !!!!!

'I don't feed beggars. They can look after themselves. The mentally ill won't ask anyone for food or money,' says N Krishnan who has been feeding them thrice a day for the past seven years.

Image: N Krishnan feeds a mentally ill person on a Madurai street
Photographs: A Ganesh Nadar
Left 5-star job to feed the mentally ill
N Krishnan feeds 400 mentally ill people on the streets of Madurai three times a day, every day, all 365 days of the year. The 28 year old has been doing this for seven years via a charity called the Akshaya Trust.
A look into the kitchen reveals a spotlessly clean room. Sparkling vessels stacked neatly, groceries and provisions all lined up in rows -- rice, dal, vegetables, spices -- all of the best quality. One would think this was the kitchen of a five star hotel. Maybe Krishnan achieves that effect because he was once a chef at a five star hotel in Bengaluru. "Today's lunch is curd rice, with home made pickle, please taste it," he says, serving me on a plate made of dried leaves. The food is excellent. "I change the menu for different days of the week. They will get bored if I serve the same food every day," he says with an enthusiastic and infectious smile.

Krishnan cooks breakfast, lunch and dinner with the help of two cooks. He takes it himself to his wards on the street each day. "I don't feed beggars. They can look after themselves. The mentally ill won't ask anyone for food or money. They don't move around much too. I find them in the same place every day."


That morning he put the food in a large vessel, the pickle in a smaller one and loaded it into a Maruti van donated by a Madurai philanthropist. Ten minutes later we stopped near a man lying on the ground by a high wall. Krishnan put the food next to him. The man refused to even look at it, but grabbed the water bottle and drank eagerly. "He will eat the food later, looks like he was very thirsty," said Krishnan. At the next stop, he laid the dry leaf-plate and served the food. He then scooped some food and started feeding the mentally ill man himself. After two morsels, the man started eating on his own.
We then crossed a crowded traffic signal and stopped the vehicle. On seeing Krishnan, four individuals moved slowly towards the Maruti van. They stood out in the crowd with their dirty, tattered clothes and unshaven beards. They knew this Maruti van meant food, but they did not hurry, knowing that Krishnan would wait for them. Krishnan served them under a tree and carried water for them. "They are not aware enough to get their own water," he explained. And thus we went around the city till the Akshaya patra was empty. Of course, it would be full again for dinner later in the day.
Past 7 years
As we returned, a startling fact hit me. Not a single mentally challenged person had thanked Krishnan. They did not even smile or acknowledge him. Still Krishnan carried on in a world where most of us get offended if someone doesn't say thank you, sometimes even for doing our jobs. The food costs Rs 8,000 a day, but that doesn't worry him.
"I have donors for 22 days. The remaining days, I manage myself. I am sure I will get donors for that too, people who can afford it are generally generous, particularly when they know that their hard earned money is actually going to the poor. That is why I maintain my accounts correctly and scrupulously. " He then pulled out a bill from the cabinet and showed it to me. It was a bill for groceries he had bought seven years ago. "This bill has sentimental value. It is the first one after I started Akshaya.
"The economic slowdown has resulted in a drop in the number of donors. Earlier, they sustained meals for 25 days. Software giants Infosys and TCS were so impressed with his work that they donated three acres of land to him in Madurai. Krishnan hopes to build a home for his wards there. He has built the basement for a woman's block which will house 80 inmates, but work has currently halted due to a lack of funds.
Five idlis
This, however, is not the sum of his good deeds. Krishnan also performs the funerals of unclaimed bodies in Madurai. He collects the body, bathes it and gives it a decent burial or cremation as the need may be. He gets calls, both from the municipal corporation and general hospital for the funerals. He recalls with a little prompting how one day he saw a mentally ill man eating his excreta. He rushed to the nearest restaurant and bought the man five idlis. The man ate voraciously, and then smiled at him. The smile made Krishnan want to do it again and again.
Krishnan has not married and wonders if anyone would want to marry a man who spends his days cooking food for others. He is firm that his life partner has to agree to this kind of life. His parents were initially shocked, but are now very supportive of their son. They advise him about the cuisine and also about how he can streamline the process.
One wonders why he left his job in a five star hotel to bury the dead and feed the mentally ill. To this he just smiles and says, "I like doing it." Mr. Krishnan is doing this -** not for political motive, because they can't vote ** not for any relegious conversion, because they don't know what they are** not with any expectation to get something in future, because they wouldn't remember him even if they become normal. He is doing this great without having any expectation. We are proud of you Mr. Krishnan and feel still there are great human hearts around us.
For more information on N Krishnan's trust, log on to: http://www.akshayatrust.org/

Thank you Mr.Krishnan !

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Rush Limbaugh or Bill Clinton who do you prefer?


I am amazed at how negative Rush Limbaugh is. Yesterday after Bill Clinton went to N. Korea and got the release of the two female journalists he wonders in his radio show if he hit on them on the plane ride back. If Rush had been the person to get them freed maybe he would have shared his stash of illegal pills (that he paid with several payments of just under the federal red-signal limit of $10k so he may not get caught) to help alleviate their pain?

This guy will make an issue out of anything to make a radio show. I once used to listen to him once in a while just to understand what a republican conservative thinks like and he sometimes made sense - not anymore. Then there is Anne Coulter, I can't even type that name without a feeling dirty or sick! I avoid people like them like China tries to avoid the swine flu. I would like to quarantine them. They are making crazy ads against the public medicine idea with issues that have been recommended by the government since the Reagan era, just because the Obama plan says they will pay for these Republican recommended practices like making Living Wills.

Are there any sensible Republicans left? In the '90s I was an Independent leaning towards Republican values because I saw how the democrats played dirty with president Bush senior. Thanks to selection of 'W' and 'Gore' as their party choices, I voted for John McCain as my protest, write-in vote. Thanks to George Bush, I became a staunch Democrat and voted for John Kerry because of the dirty tricks 'W' and the republicans played against him - even though I did not think he was the best democratic candidate - he was a decent man as far as I could see. I voted for, campaigned and contributed to the Obama campaign. It was very minor campaigning and small donations but for me that was a huge step in taking sides. I am usually very independent in my thinking and hate being pigeon-holed.

Guys who only think in terms of winning elections and not what they will do for the people they represent nor the country as a whole have got me hopping mad. They are morally corrupt and the cause of this country's imminent financial collapse. They are both Democrats and Republicans. "We the people" need to throw the bums out. We did a good job against the Republicans and we need to make sure the Democrats do not think they have it made. We need to elect more congressmen and senators like Barak Obama, John McCain, Bill Bradley, Bob Graham, Bob Dole, the old John Murtha. Where are they?

Friday, June 26, 2009

Experimental cooking "Sour Stir Fried Tofu!"

Last week I tried a new recipe on the fly. I had some tofu that had been in my fridge for a while. I cut it into thin 1 inch rectangles and lightly fried it.

I was thinking my standard question when cooking "Now what!"

I looked in the fridge and found I had some partial pieces of vegetables - green pepper, tomato, onion. I chopped them up and added them to the mix adding some more canola oil. The taste was not good as yet.

"Now What?"

I added some salt, oregano and parsley. Taste was better but still not where I wanted it.

"Now what?"

Added some vinegar from my marinated ginger, garlic and chilli pepper bottle.

Perfect!! It tasted great. New dish created - "Sour Stir Fried Tofu!"

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Good Day mate!

Interesting day. It was nice and sunny when I went out at lunch. It was a good day mate! I hope to get some running in today even though I do not feel like running. I feel like going to sleep in a hammock in the shade. Let some gentle breeze caress my face while I sleep. Hopefully I will not start snoring.

Watch Jackson hop around in the grass trying not to let it tickle his low-slung belly. In time he will also be sure to go find some of the stuff he has hidden and try to find new hiding places for them. He will look up to see if I am watching. If he catches me watching he will move away so I don't know what he is hiding and where. Then he will hop over to the neighbors and lick their feet or maybe hide his stuff in their flower beds. If the door is open he will invite himself in. if it is not too hot and sunny, he may just lay in the grass and roll over. He is a funny dog with very expressive sad/worried/playful eyes.

Good day mate!

Monday, June 15, 2009

Is this fate?

I signed up for a marathon on a whim. I attended the greatest meeting this weekend - of AID volunteers. I met a person by the name of Dr. Bhagat. He has been away from India since before I was born, yet he is still so passionate about it.

The more I learn about AID the more I feel it is the exact charity that I have been trying to find all my life. These are things that make me believe in fate.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

More days like today please

I hope the weather stays like today's for a few days.

I am sick of this monsoon like rain. I have not been able to run for fear of slipping on the mossy sidewalks that have developed in all this rain. I do walk though so I am not totally out of shape.

Yesterday poor Jackson tried to go out and was scared by the rush of droplets coming all the way into the carport as I opened the kitchen door for him. He ran back in and hid inside the comforter provided for him by my friend Raj C. He really loves that. Rolls himself up inside it and is totally invisible in the folds till he tries to get out, struggling through the same folds. It is a funny sight.

Later I walked him. The poor dog was thoroughly soaked in the paws, chest and belly. He was not happy that he had to walk through so many puddles that reached his low-rider chest and belly. I had to give him a rub-down later. He was also totally tired because of the soaking and the longer than normal walk. He is getting fitter just like his walking companion.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Several years ago I set my goal to attempt a new sport every year or renew playing one I had not done in a while. I am either crazy or just determined to keep going.

Learned skiing (that is -- attempted unsuccessfully)
Learned Ice Skating - tore my knee up
Went white-water rafting
Went tubing
Started biking again
Started swimming again
Started hiking
Learned snow-boarding - nearly broke my back
Went snow tubing

Now is the turn of running a marathon.

Next is a triathalon (mini)

I had run a half-marathon in '83. So I am not exactly challenging myself to something new.

I hope all this is not going to make my old age a creaky pain-filled knee-replacement, hip replacement time. Well, even of it does, I will at least have had fun getting there.

My story was "heavy" man!!

I was born 6lbs 7 oz.,
I expanded up to 206 lbs on a heavy heart.
I shrunk to my current 177 lbs on a medium heart
On my way to a shrimpy 160 lbs and a light heart.

That is my light-heavy hearted story.


Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Could any of this be true?

Now this was sent to me by a family member. We all know that Dr. Subramanian Swamy is a rabble rouser and self promoter. Even then, he has enough in his article on Sonia Gandhi that could be true and then it is really scary prospects for our beloved homeland. It is hard to believe that he could have imagined or made-up all this stuff.

http://www.janataparty.org/sonia.html

BTW I do not support any party. I prefer to be independent to make up my mind at the time of voting to see who I feel is the best candidate for the job in question.

Friday, May 15, 2009

What! It is the middle of May already!

I was typing 'middle of May' and saw myself typing 'tiddle of May'. For some reason, I felt I had seen that word somewhere before. I ran a spell-check, I saw tiddler, but no tiddle. How can be a tiddler when one can't tiddle?

These are the deep mysteries of life that keep me up all night worrying.

By the way, one should check out the history of AID (link) the charity I am running for. It is funny how they came up with the name and very heartwarming how the idea was born.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Life is not a bed of roses anymore. It was for a short while when I thought everything was working out for me. I had 2 loving dogs, a fiancee, a rented room in the house, my career was to be going in the right direction. Now I am just waiting for the next shoe to drop! One dog died, then my fiancee wants to think about things. I do still have my job and it is going okay, and I still have a renter. My one remaining dog still loves me. Dilli abhi dooor hai!

It was during this time that I decided to take on something that would make me forget -- how about running a marathon! Yaay!!! I will be so tired that all my troubles will be forgotten. " Not so fast" said God. Now I am tired AND miserable! Anyway it is for a good cause - AID (Association for India's Development) - a charity that works at the grass roots level in India.

As of yesterday, I have completed 3 runs now of 1.5 miles, 3 miles, 1.5 miles respectively. I will try to make it to the CCRC (Georgetown Running Club) group run tomorrow. They do 4-5 miles. In a group it becomes so much easier - mild competition/group mentality/support whatever you want to call it.

Friday, May 1, 2009

"May" I put down random thoughts

Bye April!

Virtual servers, virtual machines!!
What next? Virtual me!!
Where does this virtual life end and reality start!

I am getting tired of this productivity boost by making things virtual. It seems like one is working, but maybe I am not working at all. Everything is about saving resources/money/energy/....

I would like to go back to sleep. I have to go home and clean-up too! But I don't know when I will get home today. Too much work. This is being written while waiting for an installation to run. "Why?" you say. Just being productive! I got to produce or miss a paycheck.

Maybe I can do that and then apply for a bailout.

I should have bought a million dollar house while I could 'afford' it with my verbal paycheck of several thousand per day. "Oh, I did not realize the amount I stated was supposed to be in dollars!" Then I could have applied for a bail-out and been sitting pretty.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Exciting times ahead

Last week I was put on the spot by my program director in an 'all-hands' meeting. He was speaking about how we are going to improve process and insist on better process. He mentioned that they had not had a dedicated resource on the project for process. Then he looked up and pointed at me and said "Now we do. Arvind here will be helping implement the process."

Now I am on the hook for three huge process implementation by the end of May!! I have to help implement a SharePoint document management solution to replace our shared drive. I have to implement ClearCase for developers including training them on the usage. Then I also have to upgrade ClearQuest so that it is compatible with IE7 that is soon to be introduced in the environment. On top of all that I have to continue to learn Quality Center so I can be an effective backup administrator.

It is scary and exciting to be put on the spot like that.

I also continue enjoying myself playing a stock market game on a site called UPDOWN.









Thursday, February 19, 2009

The Sun shines on the beach again

Even though the weather is cold and 'wintery' and it took me nearly 2 hours to get to work because of equipment derailment, today is a good day. Looks like my job is going to be interesting after all. Had a great meeting with the big bosses. Got great feedback and am happy about the way things are again.

I made fresh coffee in the morning, and had a grape fruit. Quite the contrast. Had left-overs for lunch with an apple and some Mona Vie for dessert. The dogs were happy too this morning.

I am also enjoying myself playing a stock market game on a site called UPDOWN.









Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Really confused now!

One thing nice about this current position. I am learning new stuff. I will soon become a Microsoft Office SharePoint Server (MOSS) administrator to add to my CM tools administrative skill set. I joint a couple of SharePoint User groups on the LinkedIn network and found a plethora of great stuff. I am also becoming a Mercury Quality Center administrator.

This rolling stone will be gathering MOSS.
:-)

Can't figure out, am I happy or mad about this job! I am happy to be adding to my skill set. Mad that the position will probably end with my quitting for a different position soon. I kind of like working in downtown DC.

Storm clouds on this beach?

Job politics really sucks. We have two managers and no workers. I was hired being told that my predecessor was going to another project. In the course of my being trained by him, I asked him where he was going! He got very upset, since he was actually being fired! Then he went to the customer and complained. I was supposed to hire my team as the project progressed. Now we have two managers and no workers!

My life's beach has a storm coming on!

On the other hand there is a silver lining in these clouds --
  • I have met my mate and she is the most wonderful person in the world.
  • My son turned 17 at 4:20 AM this morning.
So, is my life a beach or not? I am confused. I feel like the sun is shining, but the water is cold.